a pearl resting beneath the surface

– the pearl doesn’t need to be seen by all to be precious; it’s worth lies in its very being

Nica's Life in Epistolary
3 min readJan 24, 2025
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Oftentimes, we fail to recognize our worth simply because of who we are. We seek approval, yearn for applause, and chase after success.

But it’s not those that’s the problem. It’s the illusion that these – our successes and recognitions – define us, that our value as a person must be measured by what others think and see in us.

We crave affirmations, thinking that it will fill in the gaps we feel inside. Unknowingly, the more we seek approval, the more we lose sight of the truth: our worth never relied on anyone’s acknowledgement in the first place.

So, let us keep these in mind:

Allow yourself to shine, without the desire to be seen.

Allow yourself to learn without the fear of failing.

Allow yourself to love, without expecting anything in return.

Allow yourself to grow without the pressure of being perfect.

Allow yourself to be, without needing to prove your worth to anyone.

In a world that measures worth by how visible we are, remember: the most profound power of all is to simply exist, be authentically you, and in doing so, to inspire the world in ways unseen, yet genuinely felt.

The pearl doesn’t demand attention. It doesn’t try to outshine others in the sea. Its worth isn’t measured on how many eyes it has attracted or the applause it received. Its value is inherent just as yours; existing in quiet beauty, shaped by time and experiences, yet timeless in its simplicity.

When we stop yearning for external validation, we free ourselves from the restraint of being our true self – to live authentically, to love and appreciate yourself fully, to shine in our own quiet, powerful way, and to just be.

We may not always be seen or acknowledged, but that doesn't diminish our worth. Our light is within us already – waiting to radiate, whether or not the world takes notice.

In that freedom, we discover the power of living authentically – to shine without needing the attention of others, to learn with confidence not fear, to love genuinely without expecting anything in return, to grow without the weight of perfection – because in the end, our worth is not something that can be measured, it's something that lies within.

Have you realized it now?

We are the pearls shaped through time – shaped by our experiences, and glowing with an inner light that we uniquely embody.

As we embrace our authenticity, we realize that we are enough just as we are. No external validation, no approval, and no applause can add or take away from the inherent value that is already ours.

So, let yourself rest peacefully beneath the surface. Let your worth be found in the way you exist, in the way you love, in the way you grow, and in the way you shine. Let your light caress the lives of others in ways that words can not express, even if not acknowledged.

Just like the pearl, you are timeless and that your value will never fade.

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Nica's Life in Epistolary
Nica's Life in Epistolary

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