it’s the little things that matter most
— to be loved is to be truly seen and understood
“Your eyes lit up when you talk about what you love.”
“You tap your fingers when you’re bored.”
“I removed the crust off your bread because you don’t like them.”
These details are not just small — they fill the most spaces in my heart.
Knowing how I express fondness, recognizing when my head is in the clouds, and remembering my dislikes and preferences shows the definition of what it’s like to be loved.
“Love is not about finding someone to live with; it’s about finding someone you can’t imagine living without.” — Rafael Ortiz
Love isn’t just about finding someone to share your life with.
Love is about how deeply they understand you, know you, and how they put their utmost attention to every detail of you. In its genuine form — love is rooted in the connection with the other where life without them feels empty and unimaginable.
It’s astonishing how they see through you, isn’t it?
Someone willing to peel your oranges.
Someone who would tie your shoelaces.
Someone who will eat the pineapples off your pizza.
Someone who would go the distance to give you comfort, put a smile on your face, and make you feel loved, seen, and understood.
In the end, it’s not the grand gestures that define love — it’s the little things that speak volumes.
And in those little things, you will find the greatest love of all.
